2023年6月英语四级听力真题 卷二 长对话1

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W: Welcome to our program, Friends and Relationships.Our guest today is psychologist Steve Pinker from McGill University.

W： 欢迎来到我们的节目，朋友和关系.我们今天的嘉宾是麦吉尔大学的心理学家史蒂夫平克

M:Glad to be here,Jane.

M：很高兴来到这里，简。

W:Hi, Steve. Our question today is why friends suddenly disappear. They may block us on their social media accounts and stop responding to our emails. They simply vanish without a trace.

W：嗨，史蒂夫。我们今天的问题是为什么朋友突然消失了。他们可能会在他们的社交媒体帐户上阻止我们并停止回复我们的电子邮件。他们只是消失得无影无踪

M:The answer may lie in childhood, the way the person related to their mom and dad. It's related to their attachment styles.

M：答案可能在于童年，这个人与爸爸妈妈的关系。这与他们的依恋风格有关。

W: Attachment styles?

W： 附件样式？

M:Yeah. There are two different attachment styles: an anxious attachment style and an avoidant attachment style.

M：是的。有两种不同的依恋类型：焦虑型依恋型和回避型依恋型。

When there is a relationship breakdown with their parents, children with an anxious attachment style scream and cry to get their parents to come back.

当与父母的关系破裂时，焦虑依恋风格的孩子会尖叫和哭泣，让他们的父母回来

But other children simply shut down and try to deal with their emotions by ignoring the situation. And these attachment styles carry on into adulthood.

但其他孩子只是关闭并试图通过忽略情况来处理他们的情绪。这些依恋方式会持续到成年。

W:Does avoidance reduce their stress levels?

W：回避会降低他们的压力水平吗？

M:Not really. Their stress levels are actually the same as those experienced by the children who yell and scream.

M：其实不然。他们的压力水平实际上与大喊大叫的孩子所经历的压力水平相同。

W:And I assume both might be termed insecure.

W：我认为两者都可以被称为不安全。

M:Exactly. And it's a very insecure attachment.

M：没错。这是一种非常不安全的依恋

W:How does an insecure attachment affect relationships between friends, co-workers and romantic relationships?

W：不安全的依恋如何影响朋友、同事和恋爱关系之间的关系？

M:It's the same as conflicts. So if you have a disagreement with a securely attached person, they're not going to panic.

M：这和冲突是一样的。因此，如果你与一个安全依恋的人有分歧，他们不会惊慌失措。

They're able to hear what the other person is saying and express their own feelings and thoughts effectively.

他们能够听到对方在说什么，并有效地表达自己的感受和想法。

However, an insecurely attached person won't. They might either attack you, get defensive, or just disappear from your life.

但是，不安全依恋的人不会。他们可能会攻击你，防御，或者只是从你的生活中消失

To them, a difference, no matter how small in your eyes, signals the end of the relationship.

对他们来说，差异，无论在你眼中多么微小，都标志着这段关系的结束。

W:That explains why they suddenly disappear.

W：这就解释了为什么它们突然消失了。

Questions 8 to 11 are based on the conversation you have just heard.

问题 8 到 11 基于您刚刚听到的对话

8. What do we learn about the man?

8.我们对这个人有什么了解？

9. What are the speakers mainly talking about?

9. 演讲者主要谈论什么？

10. How do children with an anxious attachment style react to a breakdown in their relationship with parents?

10.焦虑型依恋的孩子对

11.What does the man say about insecurely attached people?

11.这个人对不安全依附的人说了些什么？

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