Have you faced any difficult situations recently?
你最近遭遇过困境吗?
Have you had any problems that you just could not overcome?
你是否遇到过难以克服的难题?
This is what we call “adversity”.
这就是我们所说的“逆境”。
Adversity is a difficult or unlucky situation or event.
逆境指艰难、不幸的处境或遭遇。
We all experience adversity throughout our lives.
人的一生之中,我们都会经历逆境。
But what is the best way to deal with adversity?
但应对逆境最好的方式是什么?
Three common ways to face adversity are to change the way you look at things, to take action, and to develop healthy habits.
直面逆境有三种常见方法:转变看待事物的角度、付诸行动、养成健康的习惯。
Let’s look at each of these methods in more detail.
我们来详细了解每一种方法。
One technique to overcome adversity is to change your way of thinking about the problem.
克服逆境的一种办法是转变你看待问题的思维方式。
You can do this by writing your problems in detail, and putting them in order so you can deal with them one at a time.
你可以把难题详细写下来,梳理顺序,逐一解决。
Remember that your mistakes are not failures because you can learn from them.
记住,犯错不等于失败,你可以从错误中吸取教训。
Think about what you did and decide what you will do differently next time.
反思自己的做法,想好下一次如何做出改变。
Believe in yourself, be positive, and accept that having problems is part of life.
相信自己,保持乐观,接纳困难本就是生活的一部分。
Don’t look back at the past.
不要沉溺过往。
Just focus on the future and what you can do better next time.
着眼未来,思考下次如何做得更好。
Another way to deal with adversity is to take action.
应对逆境的另一种方式是付诸行动。
For example, by setting realistic goals which you can achieve in a short time.
例如,设立短期内能够实现的切实目标。
When you achieve your goals you will feel happy and confident to move forward in your life.
当目标达成,你会收获喜悦与信心,继续前行。
Another idea is to find someone who can provide you with support and guidance to help you focus on your goals.
还有一个办法:寻找可以给予你支持与指引的人,帮助你专注目标。
Finally, developing healthy habits can help you cope with adversity.
最后,养成健康的习惯有助于你应对逆境。
Eat well, exercise regularly, and get good quality sleep.
合理饮食、规律运动、保证高质量睡眠。
This will improve your well-being and increase your confidence.
这会改善你的身心状态,增强自信心。
Make sure you spend time with friends and family.
多陪伴亲友。
And remember to be grateful for all the good things in your life.
同时心怀感恩,珍惜生活中一切美好的事物。
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